Hello……..Is There Help Out There?

Losing your job can be disappointing, but having children and losing your job and health insurance can be devastating. You never really know the impact of health insurance until you don’t have any. As adults we can try to fend for ourselves but our children, dealing with the germs in daycare and kiddy cooties……….need healthcare. Depending upon the situation, state assistance may or may not be an option. Don’t be discouraged……. there are options out there.

I know a few people that attempted to take advantage of Obama care. 4 out of the 6 of them claimed that they could not afford the monthly co pay. The other two are utilizing the healthcare with full time employment and seem to be able to pay. Most people, who are reaching out for help, need it. Our ‘system’ has become so greedy that they do very little informing on outlets that can help the lower/ poor class citizens.

Walking into a hospital and asking about payment plans and asking about clinics can sometimes help but most hospital and doctor visits want their money almost immediately after the service is performed. There are sliding scale clinics that are out there that are based on income and can provide service for the whole family. A lot of the doctors are paid by a third party resource so there is no decrease in quality of care that they provide.

Catholic Charities Free Health Care and Squirrel Hill Health Clinic are just two of the options for free sliding scale clinics. Here are two websites that might be of some help for insurance needs.

http://freeclinicspa.org/memberclinics.html

http://bewellpgh.org/category/freesliding-scale-clinics/

 

Daddy and Mommy’s Night Out

I just recently had a conversation with a close friend of mines about going out. Funny thing is we haven’t been out in so long that we had the slightest clue where to go. Having your marriage and your kids take precedence over you ‘night life’ is what’s most important but it doesn’t mean that every now and again you don’t want to kick up your heels and dance or drink.

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Harambee!!!!!!

 

It’s that time of the year for festivals and fairs. Guess what family fair is coming to a neighborhood near you………. Harambee! On July 19th and 20th the Harambee will be located in Homewood on Kelly Street between Lang and N. Lang.  They have all these activities planned for you and the family:

  • African Dance
  • Kwanzaa in July
  • Libation Ceremony
  • Health and Wellness Expo
  • Health Screenings
  • Youth Entertainment Showcase
  • African and Afro-Carribean Dance
  • Live Jazz Performances
  • Carnival Games in the Children’s Village
  • African Market (retail and food vendors)
  • Spoken Word
  • Legacy Art Gallery
  • Interplay Workshops
  • Face Painting
  • Line Dancing
  • Gospel Performances
  • Martial Arts Demonstration
  • Book Giveaways and much much more!

Come out and support your community. I will be out there with Pittsburgh Brown Mommas!

http://harambeeujima.org/

 

 

Daddy…..The Beautician!

I am delightfully tickled to see fathers doing their daughters hair. It brings me joy to see a lot of the attempts at ponytails and curls. I was riding the bus one day and witnessed a father sweating and completely focused on putting two ponytails in his daughter’s hair. She kept asking “Daddy are you done yet” and his response was “hunny I’m trying to get it like mommy does it.” I could not contain the smile that spread across my face as I tried not to make it seem as if I was laughing at the situation but actually enjoying the effort he was putting forth.

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Father’s Day for Moms……..Really?

“Happy Father’s Day Mom”…I quickly had to correct my son when he uttered these words to me this past Father’s Day.  I explained to him that although I am a single mother, I could and would never be able to fill the role of his father or any male for that matter. Surely his father’s name wouldn’t even be mentioned as one of the nominees for The Father of The Year Award, but I still could never accept that pat on the back.

For starters, it’s spiritually and biologically impossible. Futhermore, I already had my day in May; it’s called Mother’s Day. I truly wonder where we as a culture went wrong with accepting, allowing and at times making fun of this very serious issue.  Continue reading

That’s just my baby’s daddy!

No daggers thrown to B-Roc and The Biz, but that phrase has caused quite a stir in the African American communities across the nation. The phrase ‘baby daddy’ places a negative connotation in people’s minds, especially in the corporate world. Not to say that the phrase is a false statement but the way that it is used and thrown around is not good. We are not naïve to the fact and we all understand that sometimes Continue reading